Jeff Adams


Shy Guy Goes Cruisin’ – and other Stuff

August 21, 2010

At College Fjord

Well, I know some of you are anxiously awaiting word on the cruise thing. Without wasting any time I’ll get right to the meat – I loved it! Can you believe it!

Two issues concerned me.

Issue #1 – Do I really have to dress up for a formal dinner two times?

Yes, but I found out that few guys are packing tuxedos these days. I got by just fine with a sports coat and tie like half of the other males. Some of the older men didn’t even go that far, wearing a wrinkled shirt and maybe a tie about 30 years past prime. This confirms a theory – you reach an age when you do pretty much what you darn well please and dare anyone to question you. (I’m not that old – yet).

Issue #2 – Do I really have to sit at the same table with the same people each night? What will I say? I’m an introvert, remember?

OK, it wasn’t that bad. The two other couples at our table were very nice. That’s good. I would have been majorly ticked off if they would have been jerks, whiners or grumpy. They weren’t. However, they made us look like world class conversationalists. Can you imagine THAT! We really didn’t have anything in common and they weren’t too forthcoming with the talk.

Sample conversation:

Us: “So, have you cruised before?”

Them: “Yes.”

Us: Well, did you enjoy it?

Them: “Yes.”

Us: “Do you have any children?”

Them: “Yes.”

After that snapshot of table conversation, I found that I was content to smile, stare over the heads of my table mates and watch glaciers or something like that, or even just water. It wasn’t bad. Plus, the two waiters that we had every night were Mexican and we passed the time having more conversation in 30 second Spanish sound bites in the midst of serving than with the others. Not only that, the food was good – really good!

Here’s the list of what we really enjoyed.

  • This was a really cool way of celebrating a 40th wedding anniversary.
  • The scenery was out of this world! There is no picture or words to describe what we saw. Really. I was totally blown away. I’m glad we spent the money to have a room with a balcony.
  • The entertainment was first class. There was always something interesting to do from music shows, comedians, magicians to lectures on really interesting stuff, including 4 by naturalist Kathy Slamp who was raised as an MK in Alaska.
  • Whale watching – not only orcas, but we saw tons (quite literally) of hunchback whales from the ship. We even saw one breech (jump totally out of the water). In Juneau we went with Herv and Merv’s whale watching one day in a little boat for only six people. We had an amazing time with several whales surfacing within 20 yards of the boat – about as close as I care to get. Our guide was as amazed as we were. They always see some whales, but not as many or as close.
  • We loved walking around the little Alaskan towns of Ketchikan, Juneau and Skagway on the three stops our ship made. Did I mention the weather was perfect? Everyone we met talked about how horrible the weather has been this season, until the day we arrived.
  • Glacier By and then College Fjord. I have no words. We stood in awe. We saw icebergs calved. The weather was such that we saw everything, even three bears scavaging a dead whale washed up on shore.
  • Following the cruise we went on land excursions to Denali Park and McKinley Park. Another wow! On one tour a grizzly bear approached from the right, crossed right in front of the bus and we were able to watch him scoot along for a long time. Shortly after that we saw several caribou including the most mature male (from his antler system) our guide had seen in 20 years. We also saw moose (more than one – mooses? I know it’s not mice, but don’t fully understand why), and other assorted critters. Our guide was out of her mind, crazy excited. She does this tour all season long a couple of times a day and has only seen four bears all season and never up close like this. Seriously, she was goofy-giddy, all smiles and much more excited than even we were. On another tour our van was able to pull up right alongside of a huge black bear feeding on berries (like 6 ft away).

Everywhere we went locals and guides told us that we have had the best weather of the season. They also said we have seen more than just about any other group. At McKinley Park our only slight, selfish disappointment was not being able to see The Mountain, Mount McKinley, Denali (it’s so big it has three names!) in all its glory.

The last morning we sat and watched as clouds threatened to give us a show. Honestly, it was like the mountain was an old time burlesque dancer, teasing by showing just a little bit of herself form time to time.

From there we went to Anchorage to spend the night and next day before flying home late Thursday night. We woke up the next morning to a crystal clear day, looked out the window of our 8th floor hotel room and saw the entire Alaskan Range including McKinley. This was the first day in 39 straight days in Anchorage it had not rained and the first day in two months they had seen the Sun. Yes, it was the day we were there. Yeah, we saw it all!

Here’s what I’m taking away from this. I would have missed this fabulous display of God’s creative genius if I would have not have set set aside my little issues, personalities quirks, likes and dislikes. You might remember that I said this was going to be a streeeeeetch!

Well, I’m glad I stretched, even when it was not comfortable for me. We saw things many people will never see. We saw more in one trip than many see in several trips to Alaska.

Many people, I think, go through life comfortably hidden away in their little bubble. They don’t like change, or stretching, or stepping out beyond their comfort zone. Consequently, they miss out on the fullness and beauty of life that God has for them. How sad.

All year we have had the theme of Grow. I’ m very excited for this Fall because on September 12th we start our next series called Breaking Through Glass Ceilings. It’s all about growth. I suppose you could just sit back in your little bubble, but I would urge you to come and stretch with me. You never know what you’ll see.

  • Carole Thomason

    I’m glad you and your wife injoyed your trip. Pastor Jeff you have step forward out of your comfort zone and you didn’t let them see you sweat. .As Martha Stewart would say what you did( was good thing)

    HAPPY 40TH ANNIVERSARY

  • Ken Kerr

    Congrats: we did our 40th on an Alaskan cruise and tho not as complete as yours, it was great. Our table group was a bit more talkative tho. The staff remembered everything you liked or not, preferred to eat or not and the food was great. We would do it again if we could work it out ($$). Being retired crimps some things.

  • Barak

    Gotta rememeber to enter the name first or the post wont submit,,anyway,,Good to hear, how awesome Alaska and that cruise is, glad you enjoyed it so much. I never heard anyone say anything but how much they really enjoyed that cruise and the Alaskan port stops.

    I didnt see you mention it, but did you get to take the trip over onto a glacier and drink the million year old water?

    Anyway as someone who doesnt look forward to forced social interaction situations with unfamiliar people I can certainly emphathize with how PAINFUL that is, haha. I know I sure have tried to avoid those situations when I can, but when I didnt and went out of my comfort zone, I usually was glad I did and many times pleasantly suprised at how much I actually enjoyed it.

    Im guessing something that separates really successful people and those who enjoy the most out of life, from those who arnt so much, and dont so much enjoy life, are those who routinely venture out of their comfort zones versus those who do not.

    • http://www.kcbt.org Jeff Adams

      Great observation, Barak. And, no, I did not get a chance to drink any glacier water, just to drink in the beauty.

  • Sue C

    So glad you had a good time and a nice vacation!

    My husband drags me along on cruises (cheap ones, though!) as often as he can. He fights for 7 day ones, I compromise with 5 day ones!)

    As you can see, I’m more of a homebody. But it IS WONDERFUL to NOT have to cook, clean, figure out menus, etc, etc. I do enjoy that part of it immensely.

    Congratulations to both of you on your 40th anniversary! You definitely deserved a break!

  • Hal Large

    Congratulations on your 40th wedding anniversary. God bless and keep you.

    • http://www.kcbt.org Jeff Adams

      Hal! Wow! So good to hear from you. Thanks and blessings to you and Cheryl, too.

  • http://prepaidlegal.com/hub/paulmathews Paul Mathews

    “HAPPY BIRTHDAY” JEFF
    AREN’T CRUISES A BALL
    “Have A Great Day”
    Have A SUPER BIRTHDAY MONDAY
    AUGUST 23,2010 … PAUL.

    • http://www.kcbt.org Jeff Adams

      And, Happy Birthday right back to ya, Paul!

  • Fawn J. Collins

    LOL @ Pastor Adams; maybe you should have asked them questions that would get you more than a yes or no…like where was your last cruise before this one? or What did you enjoy about your cruise? They must have been introverts too. Any who, I’m glad you and our First Lady had a great time, because you both deserve it. However, I’m selfish I guess cause I missed you both and I’m glad you are back and refreshed. I’ll see you Sunday morning. WELCOME BACK HOME!!!! l Love you both and God Bless

  • Tom Rigot Sr

    You just completed my dream cruise you lucky devils …errr I mean angels! Sharon & I have 2 Caribean cruises under our belts and absolutely love the cruise lifestyle. We also ponied up for balcony rooms and don’t regret the added cost. I want to take the same Alaskan cruise you guys took with the same side trips to Denali. Sharon only wants to go where it’s warm so I don’t know if it will happen. I know that pictures and words won’t compare to actually seeing the sites in person. Anyway, I’m glad the bears didn’t have you two for dinner. Congratulations on 40 years of bliss!

    • http://www.kcbt.org Jeff Adams

      Tom, tell Sharon that it wasn’t cold at all. The only time it was a bit nippy was the day we had this photo taken and those a rain coats only because it was misting. The temps in the day were in the upper 60′s and got down to around 50 at night. Keep in mind that in Alaska this time of year the days lasts from around 5am to about 10pm! So, we were very comfortable in a light sweater, pullover or jacket. In most places, we were in short sleeves after 10am as long as there was sunshine. That is not as common as in the Caribbean, of course. But, even with no Sun, a light jacket felt great, and even greater thinking that you were having a heat wave back home!

  • Aletia

    Thank you for sharing your experience. I have always wanted to take an Alaskan cruise! I have truly been inspired by your honesty about your process of growth this year. Keep stretching yourself and I’ll be right behind you doing the same!

  • unixrab

    I knew you’d love it. Will you cruise again?

    • http://www.kcbt.org Jeff Adams

      Will I cruise again??? Uhhh …. you know, that’s a really good question. I’m not sure how to answer. I truly enjoyed it, but I really don’t have any desire to do a Caribbean type cruise. I had heard from others on board who had done the Caribbean cruises that there was a great deal more drinking and rowdiness and more kids. The other factor is cost – this vacation cost a ton more than I am used to paying. It would be a while before I could afford to do something like this and it took me a couple of years to save up to do this one. I heard from others that the Alaskan cruises cost a bit more than others. So, yeah, well, there you have it – I don’t know. But, if I had the urge and the bucks I wouldn’t be as fearful of it as I was in the past. I know all this probably doesn’t make any sense, but then there are plenty of times when I don’t make any sense. :-)